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Epiphany - Rainbow Fish Tree Stories and Prayers

The Rainbow Fish Tree is an Epiphany tradition for our congregation. After Christmas, the tree in our sanctuary dons a bright Rainbow Fish. Each week during the Epiphany Season we hang ribbons on the tree in a commitment to overcome the barriers that separate us from one in the church. We a share a stanza of the Ribbon Prayer that focus' on the particular "ism", and process during the closing hymn.

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Rainbow Fish Tree Story

Ribbon Prayers for 2004 - Alternative "Isms"

Ribbon Prayers for 2003 - Traditional "Isms"

Ribbon Prayers - Alternative "Isms"

Copyright 2004, Katherine Hawker.

We will hang ribbons in commitment to move beyond
anthropomorphism, dogmatism, secularism, egoism,
intellectualism, materialism, and fatalism.

We hang a ribbon in commitment to move beyond anthropomorphism.
When we limit our experience of the divine with human definitions,
God forgive us.
Letting go of anthropomorphism,
empower us to embrace mystery.

We hang a ribbon in commitment to move beyond dogmatism.
When we insist on particular definitions and miss opportunities for growth,
God forgive us.
Letting go of dogmatism,
empower us to revel in question.

We hang a ribbon in commitment to move beyond secularism.
When our rejection of religion deafens our ears to the Spirit's call,
God forgive us.
Letting go of secularism,
empower us to see the Spirit around us.

We hang a ribbon in commitment to move beyond egoism.
When our self-interest leads to callous disregard for others,
God forgive us.
Letting go of egoism,
empower us to claim community.

We hang a ribbon in commitment to move beyond intellectualism.
When our appreciation of knowledge clouds our respect for mystery,
God forgive us.
Letting go of intellectualism,
empower us to live in wonder.

We hang a ribbon in commitment to move beyond materialism.
When we place inordinate value on the collection of things,
God forgive us.
Letting to of materialism,
empower us to cherish the intangible.

We hang a ribbon in commitment to move beyond fatalism.
When our belief in our own powerlessness leads us to inaction,
God forgive us.
Letting go of fatalism,
empower us to claim hope.

As we relinquish our grip on certainty,
may we revel in the rich diversity of life to which God calls us.

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Ribbon Prayers - Traditional "Isms"

Copyright 2003, Katherine Hawker.

Creating God,

We see your creative energy in the wonder of our diversity.
Our genders, races, and orientations; our social classes, ethnicityÕs and creeds; our physical and mental healthÕs and abilities all give witness to your Spirit dancing among us.

May our ribbons hang in solidarity with those who feel isolated and excluded because of their sexual orientation.

May our ribbons hang in solidarity with those who sit in wheelchairs, lie in hospital beds, hear inaudible voices, and develop at a different pace.

May our ribbons hang in solidarity with those who have pledged to share life in this particular community of faith.

May our ribbons hang in solidarity with those working for gender equality so that our daughters and our sons may know a world of opportunity and respect.

May our ribbons hang in solidarity with the rainbow hues of humanity; ebony and ivory, peach and cinnamon, brown and white.

May our ribbons hang in solidarity with those who run the assembly lines, check the groceries, stock the shelves, teach the children, and tend the elderly.

May our ribbons hang in solidarity with those who worship Yahweh, honor Mother Earth, pray to Allah, follow the Master, and befriend Jesus.

May the ribbons we hang in celebration further our commitment to embracing your boundless presence in our midst.

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Rainbow Fish Tree Story

Written for Evangelical United Church of Christ, Katherine Hawker 2003.

On October 17, 1998 our Church Council invited Committee leadership to join them at Eden Seminary for a "Leadership" retreat to look together at our vision. David Greenhaw, President of Eden Seminary and a member of the congregation, graciously agreed to lead the gathering.Though we left that day with no clear goal statements we were rallied for a new course that none of us could foresee.

David preached, as David does, as he led our retreat and two of his charges that day continue to shape us this day. One was his charge that as Christians we are called to be tolerant of all even those who are intolerant except that intolerance is not tolerable so that our tolerance must not tolerate intolerance. (To really get the effect you have to watch David deliver this sermon in person.)The other charge that he shared that day was his joy in the church being the place where moral outrage can be shared. His clear love for the church glowed as he challenged us to share our moral outrage one with another.

What we were all only vaguely aware of that day was context. Matthew Shepard had just been murdered in Laramie Wyoming. Hung on a fence to die on October 12, 1998.

David's timeless thoughts about moral outrage and tolerance, fell onto the parched soil of a people shocked by the power of hate. Seeds buried deep in our souls were watered by David's words, sprouts already churning as we gathered for worship on Sunday, October 18, 1998.

On an otherwise uneventful Sunday morning, our student pastor, largely unaware of David's words, but reeling from Matthew Shepard's horror, shared his moral outrage with the congregation. During the prayer time that followed, I offered an impromptu invitation to the congregation to join together that evening to share our moral outrage.

As twenty people filled my office that evening, we prayed and we cried.
We were thirty-somethings with young children,
we were senior citizens seasoned in church life,
we were straight, single, gay, lesbian and married.
We were unified in our outrage, horrified by the intolerance of hatred, even more by the tolerance of intolerance demonstrated by those who called themselves Christian.
"Enough is enough", we said.
Enough is enough.
Our silence was broken.
The spirit of our Rainbow Fish Tree our quirky little Epiphany tradition was born that week.

We started with needing a way to publicly say "no" to hate. We searched for a symbol that said "yes" to our faith and at the same time "yes" to our diversity. We yearned for a symbol that would speak not to our failures but to our promise. And we found that symbol in a little gay shop in south St. Louis produced by a one-person firm in Texas. A rainbow fish.

The rainbow had many meanings for us.
It reminded us of Sharon Harkins and her belief that the rainbow witnessed God's presence among us. We talked about Jesse Jackson's work for racial justice with the Rainbow Coalition; how the rainbow reminded us not only of Matthew Shepard but also of James Byrd, Jr. We noted that the rainbow is an ancient biblical symbol that is - well - pretty.

And the fish.
We'd all seen lots of fish on bumper stickers, but we had to remind each other what the fish meant in the early Christian Church. The fish was in its origin a symbol that opened doors, which identified community and belonging. Inclusion of orientations, yes, and also of races and classes and those who are disabled. We wanted to draw a big fish where all are welcome. We wanted to take the symbol back from those who used it to exclude. We wanted the fish, and we wanted to fill it with a rainbow of hope.

Many of us put these colorful fish on our cars. More of us signed an ad in the Webster-Kirkwood Times (December 1998) which included the Rainbow Fish with an invitation to welcome the Prince of Peace with tolerance. And as we were putting the Christmas decorations away, one member wondered aloud about how else we might share the Rainbow Fish. After much discussion and dreaming, the Rainbow Fish Tree emerged. Rob Hartmann agreed to make the first Rainbow Fish "treetopper" and Bill and Karen Schmiel figured out a way to hang ribbons. Each week during Epiphany 1999, we closed our worship services with a pilgrimage to the Rainbow Fish tree, hanging ribbons so that we might be a more tolerant people.

As we prepared prayers and ribbons for the varied weeks of Epiphany 1999, we designated one week for each of our cultural "isms" - race, class, orientation, gender, ethnicity, creed, and physical and mental health and ability. Our moral outrage once again blossomed into action and a pew was removed from the center of the sanctuary in hopes that Ralph Koeppe and others in wheelchairs might have a welcome place to sit in our sanctuary. Ralph was able to return to worship and was one of many who have found respite in the now familiar row of blue chairs.

The Rainbow Fish also proved costly.

An elderly couple returned from a winter's vacation to find the glittery fish adorning their tree, they were invited to a strange new custom of processing and making public witness for a cause they didn't share. Lost in a place that was once comfortable, they walked out and have not returned.

The seminary student given destiny's assignment of preaching on October 18, 1998 was blamed by an anonymous member for turning our congregation into a hotbed of gay activism. He was targeted for harassment. He lost a job opportunity and we lost our sense of security.

Our congregation, which had long agreed to "act" open and affirming without talking and certainly without voting, found ourselves forced to talk and ultimately to vote. The more we talked about our moral outrage and the complicated task of tolerating all people while not tolerating intolerance the more clarity we found. Sadly some found clarity that the Rainbow Fish did not belong to them. Others discovered tolerance they didn't know they had. Still others joined us as they found safety in the shadow of the Rainbow Fish.

During the long hot days of growth the blossom of our passion faded. Our Welcome Statement, naming us as "open to and affirming of", had been in our worship bulletin each week for nearly a year, our work seemed done. By the time we prepared for the 2001 Epiphany Season, the Rainbow Fish had lost its luster.

It was then that a new member shared his story.
"We just stared at that fish when we came in. Do these people know what that fish means?"
he wondered as a first time visitor.
"Could they really mean that we are welcome?"

A call came from the UCC News, our denominational newspaper. "Can we do a feature on your Rainbow Fish Tree?".

A visitor from Arizona stopped in after reading about us in the UCC News to take a look at our tree because their church was planning to have one this year.

The Rainbow Fish had become a part of us.
The glittery fish retired last year and
Bill Perman made a pottery one for us.
The ribbons have been recycled, held, hung and recycled several times now.
Sometimes I weary of writing yet another prayer about the fish.
Sometimes I wonder if this symbol has lost its meaning.

But then I remember our story.
I remember our quest for vision and David Greenhaw's challenge.
I remember Matthew Shepard and our moral outrage.
I remember the promise of the rainbow and the welcome of the fish.
I remember those who were harassed in our hallways
and those who said goodbye.
I remember as I look at this quirky tree
the cost
and the joy
of discipleship
at Evangelical United Church of Christ.

Maybe someday the long awaited reign of God will blossom so fully that we will no longer need the Rainbow Fish Tree.
A day when no one is excluded
or isolated
or lonely.
But until then
we will hang ribbons in the shadow of the Rainbow Fish as we re-covenant with God and one another to live in tolerance.

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